Category: Singles Spit Swap
Hey ladies. First of all, I'd like to thank you for checking out this topic. A little about me. My name is Jamil. Physically, I'm a 5/5 and a half latino with curly black hair, tan complection weighing 130 pounds. I live independently and have my own apartment in up state New York. I graduated with an associates degree in liberal arts and am currently working towards my bachelers in creative writing and studying to become a translator as I speak both spanish and english fluently. With that said, you must be wondering what I can offer you. Well, lets see. If you enjoy holding hands, long walks, stimulating conversation lasting for hours, deep long kisses, cuddling, relaxing back rubs, if you like being sang to and receiving sincere love letters, if you want to feel cherished and appreciated then I'm your guy. I'm looking for a lady who is easy going. One who can take a joke as well as make one, who has respect for herself and others, who will accept my views on life and religion/belief, who I can learn from as well as share my wisdom with, who is thoughtful and caring and is ready for something serious. I want to get to know you and when the time is right, I want to enter into a long term one on one relationship with you. If you'd like to chat sometime, please feel free to send me a private message or catch me when I'm online through public or private quicknotes. I look forward to meeting you. Thanks again for stopping by.
Sincerely your's,
Jamil
Lol! I wish you luck with your future endeavors but I know you didn't right this!
Really? :O
Aww come off it tila, so what if he didn't. So long as its true to the max. He just wants to find someone, is that so bad?
No matter if he had someone proof read it I think that shows his seriousness. :)
Well, I want the same person to write mine too. Lol
Aww, Jamil, come on. I thought that wasn't you who wrote this up, but really. If you're going to post one of these, be yourself. Grammatical errors and all. Only thing is, if you're really a creative writing major and you have a ton of typos... that doesn't cyncronize well. Just sying. Props for have a ghostwriter for your classified, but being yourself might help you attract someone who's more compatible than trying to impress the ladies in general.
A, for effort?
lol to the last poster. and, agree all the way!! like I told you before Jamil, honey, that ad sounds like you're trying to sell yourself to an employer, not get a girlfriend. ...
Dude, Jamil, you're a cool guy, but... however... are you trying to get a girlfriend or sell a used car? lol!!!!
I'm glad I'm not the only one lol! Not trying to dog you, but if you are really looking for someone who you are truely compatible with, maybe rewrite it and throw in a few things about yourself that wasn't mentioned like you love dogs more than girls or something! Just saying!
I personally don't think there's anything wrong with having something proofread, especially if he wants to be well understood. He described himself, what he likes and wants, what he can offer and though I don't agree with the "loving dogs more than girls", I see honesty in this writing. I think the focus here is being more about the help he got in having it neetly written than the intention itself. Just saying.
oh you have to know Jamil to know why we are saying what we have.
Plus, he told me he didn't write it anyway, just to clear the air lol!
hi Jamil,
am so sorry to not living near you! I really enjoyed reading your nice words that seem very sincere. I think you deserve all the best. I'd like to know you better even if i live distant from you!
Yeah, he told me that he had help writing it, that he told this person what he wanted to say and how he wanted to put it out, so, yeah, I'm not discarding that. He's being honest, though, I say.
yes how much for this new car?
See Jamil, this is why you never get laid. lol. sorry, but it's the cruel truth. And Mili, no. I'm sorry. Your true colors show in your writing style more than anything. I should know, as someone who makes a living writing. nothing is more authentic than a person's own statement preserved on paper.
If you're not trained to emulate anyone else's style for work purposes, your own writing truly reveals your personality.
Just like, for instance, if someone had a messy room on a regular basis but he or she was looking for a roommate, so they hired someone to clean the room, took a picture of the clean room and advertised him or herself as a neat person. I'm sorry, but that's deceptive. As is this charming classified. lol.
Jamil might be all of themse things, but if he's going to write a profile, he might as well do it himself. After all, the potential love interest won't be spending time with jamil's ghostwriter. She's be spending time with jamil himself.
i'm waiting for the caribbean music to play in the backround then, please call for a travel guide.
True, bernadetta, don't appologize. I understand, now. I personally don't seek or do that myself.
I understand your poinss, and I understand why he did it. But if he's trying to get a girl, why discourage him with comments like, "you like dogs better than girls"? I personally enjoy my own company on most ocasions, so does that mean I like being alone rather then being with another? Just pointing out that much. Though I really don't know jamil himself, he seems the type to be able to explain himself in words then in text. If you get what I mean.
Looks like some sort of attempted reverse psychology I guess. Discouragement is the new encouragement nowadays, perhaps. Hmmm I guess it's something I won't know, just like we all don't know Jamil that well, but people will just look at the negatives before anything. Who the hell knows.
Its how I kind of see it ryan.
Isn't a girlfriend an employer, ? I always thought you had to sale yourself. Lol
Now, all you sweet women posting about how bad his post is why not some phone numbers, email addresses, bank balances,descriptions, and such?
The man is looking for a woman not a class on how to post an add? Smile.
I'm sayin why yall cock blockin! If the content is true then who cares who wrote it? Personally anyway I would only be angry if what was being written was an all out lie.
Well, send him a private message. Get to know him.
You can find out if he's a liar. This is his aim. He wishes all femailes reading his posting, no matter who wrote it, or even if he copied it from the back page of how to find a date magazine, he just wishes responses
Go ahead, find out if you should be angry. . Smile.
good morning all!
first i want to thank you for all your comments. both positive and negative. I did do a post earlier myself and got no responces. so i figured i'd try it this way. but anyways, if you'd like to get to know me feel free to send me a message! again thanks to all!
Ah, com on. Tell these women to stop judging your post they keep reading and lets talk?
Stand up, say what you really want to say.
Be a male pig
You will be judged anyway, so. ! Lol
sorry mate. you just come across as creepy, and desperate. which from how I've seen you interact with women on here so far, is an accurate statement. do you really expect to be taken seriously when you post shit like that on a public board?
Yes, he's serious. Smile.
Now ladies?
I've chatted with this person. However, I admit I'm picky but I wish him luck finding someone!
Beautiful. Smile.
Nexst?
back rubs just reminds me of the southpark episode where Cartman makes friends with older men, I'll leave it there Nambla
Hahaha mas, and awwwie Wayne. Come on guys be like him and help jamil out. Everyone needs someone, whether its love, lust, or just plain jane dates. Everyone wants to fall in love, its how we're made. hahahaha
Of course big bird. and lol maz..Come on he is a nice person
Sure, a nice person, he just needs a match.
To get a match he needs some responses?
Ladies?
Yes my sisters he'll treat you right! I've known him since I was 6 and he's just an honest caring passionate guy who wants to make you happy. And you didn't hear it from me, but word around town is he's even quite handsome. So snatch up this gorgeous piece of man flesh before some cheating undeserving bitch does!
Awwwie, so nice.
Awwwwww! how lovely! well... lol! :)
I really do hope you find a lady jamil.
very classic things you've said there, and jamil i'm not saying that to mean that you're copying others or you're typical, only observing that you're into the classic things, like in films.
So, seeing that you are both looking, hit him up!
Not to steer the spot light away from Jamil, I thought she said in both her board topics that she was not looking for a relationship on here. I think she is just trying to feel out what other people think of her opinions.
She posted, so.
Get out Ryan!
I'm trying to hook this man up! Smile.
Oh wow, drama in my board? lo
No drama yet. I've not seen all the women after you fighting. Maybe soon?
lol. or maybe not
Yo, good luck Jamil!
Reel you will never change, but yeah, you do make some good points though, and the ladies too, be yourself, at the end of the day, you know what you want, and who you are, so make it easy and be honest from the beginning. Not knocking, just saying, it makes it much better that way.
Now Ill ask one more time, Ladies, anyone? he is a good guy, at least mail him and see what he's about, you'll never know til you try?
I believe he has found her. Smile. I have noticed some things on the Zone that make me hopeful anyway.
lol reel have not found her yet